Hi, I’m Serina, and I’m a packrat.
What’s that, you say? Why, then, do I call my blog, “Simply Serina?”
That’s easy. Because the simple thing to do is pack all of my assorted memories and keepsakes into boxes, move them from house to house, and ignore them until I want to take a walk down Memory Lane.
Problem is? I’m tired of these boxes, folks. It’s getting ridiculous. I have at least half a dozen boxes of assorted papers and pictures and keepsakes to sort through. When we first moved to PA, we lived off of what we could fit into a minivan. For six months! It taught me a great deal about what’s important in life (and what’s not all that essential). Thus, I embraced the simple, and realized that simplicity was already a big part of many facets of my life. So, when we finally got our truckload of boxes out of storage, most stuff went directly into the basement. (It overwhelmed me, the un-simplicity of it.) And there it has stayed for three years. And before that? Many of these “stuff” boxes sat untouched in our old basement, having been moved directly from my parents’ home into our newlywed apartment the year we got married.
We have already donated several van loads of things to the local thrift store, in addition to have the veterans pick of a porch full of donated things yesterday. But the big problem? Is my “stuff” boxes from my childhood through college years.
Here is a small sampling of what I, in the past week, have read/sorted/recycled/filed/torn into shreds/laughed about/cried over:
- Creative writing assignments from ninth grade
- College English papers
- Music from junior high choir
- A sweet poem my sister (uncharacteristically) wrote for me when I didn’t make the choir I wanted to in ninth grade
- Pictures from the last day of classes in eight grade (oh, the fashion horrors!)
- Notes of what to pack in our hospital bags in preparation for Maya
- Journal entries from when I was trying to decide between Rob and Dan in college
- Mostly empty journals from various times in my life (I never keep them going)
- Love notes from Sappy Chris (whose romantic prose was every teen girl’s dream), who I met while working at BK
- Millions of “Serina loves [Insert Crush of the Moment Here]” doodles in various colors, bubble letters, and fonts, spanning sixth grade through high school
- The “Serina & Dana” sign + pictures that we hung on our dorm room door (6th Eldridge Rocks!)
- Congratulatory cards after Elly’s birth
- First drafts of notes I wrote to Scott (my high school sweetheart) when we dabbled with the idea of getting back together senior year
- Notes from the weekly Bible study I led with Andy, one of my best college buds
- An invitation to my first slumber party in second grade!
- Notes about my home visits by my midwives in my second pregnancy
- Honeymoon pictures (who were those thin, beautiful, young folks?)
- Birthday cards from the surprise party Jason threw for me on my golden birthday (20 on the 20th!)
I mean, really, I could go on and on, but you get the gist. (A few observations as I ponder my junk: I was boy crazy. I wrote so many notes to my girlfriends that I don’t know how I did so well in school. I started way too many journals. And? I was a decent writer in high school.) It’s amazing how much stuff I just threw into boxes because I couldn’t bear the thought of actually sorting through it. But neither could I just recycle/trash it all, because there might be something worth keeping, right?
I’m proud to say I’ve recycled, donated, and trashed a ton of stuff. But it takes me too long, so some of it will have to get trucked to the next house. But I’m determined to make it all disappear, so I’m going to make myself sort through old boxes and pictures before I let myself do a bunch of other projects.
There, I’ve said it, and you can hold me to it.